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HONESTY June 30, 2006
In this issue we will explore:
  • Honesty in Your Relationships, Family, and Working Environment
  • Honesty Towards Your Body, Heart and Mind
  • Technique--Empowering Honesty in My Life
  • Greetings Dear Friends! How are You?

    When we meet with someone, the usual greeting is:” Hi! How are you?” How much truthfulness is in “How are you?” Are you honestly interested in how other person feels? Many times we say “How are you?” not waiting for response, or not being really interested in the answer. This is insincerity towards other person. And toward ourselves.

    Many people talk about honesty and dishonesty towards others, children, spouses, friends, business partners, and politicians. Many people unconsciously lie and cheat. And some are outright, corrupt, unethical, and amoral. There are forums discussing on the subject of honesty.

    Look around yourself. How many people can you perceive that are really good and honest towards themselves? Others? Most. Can you perceive that almost all people go forward in life, thinking that they are trustworthy and others are problem? Many of us are agitated towards others because they treat us as we are not worthy to deserving something.

    Where is happening here?

    Turn to yourself, now. Think about your life. How many times YOU were dishonest towards yourself? And do you realize that others are treating you in the same way as you treat yourself - with honesty or dishonesty?


    Honesty in Your Relationships, Family, and Working Environment
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    Honesty is most touched and recognized in your relationships. How many times you have heard spouses complaining about insincere partners? Why does this happen?

    Many times we know or feel in the very beginning that some relationship will not work for us. Many of you probably had relationship, for which you knew from the very beginning that it would not work well for you. Were you honest towards yourself and discern according to frank input from your Highest Self? Many of us can say “NO”.

    Were you “thinking” that you can deal with the situation or person. You can change him/her, and enjoy your lives together. So, how did this relationship turn out? Probably as you felt at the very beginning. Was your “gut” feeling right? How many years of “learning” passed by you? Were you then dishonest in your thinking?

    If you desire a honest partner, be Honest to yourself. Many people go forward in dishonesty towards their Higher-Self. When they realize that they were lying to themselves, not following their gut feeling, many of them still continued in dishonesty towards themselves, not changing anything in their lives. This means being untruthful, misleading your mind, lying to yourself, being unfair towards your mission in life, and being insincere towards your heart. And this creates illness.

    Honesty continues in family. How honest you are towards your children? Do you walk your talk living with them?

    Many parents live differently than they teach their children to live. Parents fight in many ways with their partners and expect children to be peaceful at school with their friends. Children copy you, they mimic your authentic you, what you are doing, as you act, what you desire to hide, NOT only what you show outside. Your façade is not good enough protection because children can read through you and perceive how honest you really are towards yourself, your truths and life style.

    Your children emphasize the honesty of the innocent child within you. Many times they fight for integrity while learning from their parents. If you desire honest children, be Honest to yourself.

    Honesty continues in your working environment and among friends. How many truthful people surround you? Can you trust them? Did you ever think that they are your mirrors? What we need to learn for ourselves, we create as environment, and experiences. As many honest people you have in your surrounding, shows how honest you are towards yourself.

    Honesty Towards Your Body, Heart and Mind
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    Now, let us touch upon your honesty towards your body. If you eat too much, if the food is not processing well in your body, and you do not do anything about it, or if you do not exercise enough, then this shows your indecisiveness and dishonesty towards your physical body.

    Your body needs your love and care. It needs you to honor it, by honestly working for its health and well-being. Creating illness and pushing your body down are fraudulent and dishonest actions, because without your body you could not have all your great experiences. So, respect your body!

    Is your heart filled with love and passion, or are you deceitful towards your heart filling it with unhappiness, pain, and sadness? Now, make decision to always feel great, joyful, free, and peaceful. This will create any honest and sincere heart that will embrace others with acceptance and love.

    How about your mind? Are you honest in your thinking. If your head is full with mental chatter and you do not express your thoughts, or speak lies, then this is dishonesty towards yourself again. If you talk without listening to yourself, or others, you miss the moment and your creations in it. Honesty towards your wisdom and knowledge is expressing them when needed, or is silence when needed. Listening and speaking your truth is best way to honor yourself, and others will follow this schema, by respecting you.

    There are lots of areas where we may be more honest, sincere, upright, and honorable. These areas include our hearts, minds, bodies, our environment, honesty toward real peace and freedom, pure love and health, our creations, and life itself. When we begin to truthfully emanate pure honesty, this will also begin to transmute our environment, initiating honest society and our world.

    Technique--Empowering Honesty in My Life
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    Our Channeled Technique, for empowering Honesty in Your Life, is provided below:

    1. Call Angels to help you in this Meditation.

    2. Set the Intent that from now on, you will always be Honest in your Life, actions, thoughts, emotions, and relationships.

    3. Ask Angels to have Bells of Honesty in their hands. Use this Angel Icon.

    4. Ask Angels, whenever you are not honest in your life, actions, thoughts, emotions, let them ring the Bells of Honesty.

    5. When you hear the Bells of Honesty, stop for the moment.

    6. Allow your Awareness to bring your issue to the surface.

    7. Say: “I release it with awareness.”

    8. Sense releasing throughout your entire body.

    9. Create a new Honest Belief.

    10. Live it!

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